8 Simple Tricks to Boost Your Likeability and Make People Want to Approach You

Elvis Tapfumanei
3 min readJan 12, 2023

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Photo by Brooke Cagle on Unsplash

Are you tired of feeling invisible in social situations? Want to learn how to be the life of the party and make new friends with ease? Look no further! Being likeable and approachable is a skill that can be learned and perfected with a few simple tricks. Whether you’re an introvert or an extrovert, these tips will help you become the magnetic, charismatic person you’ve always wanted to be. So grab a pen and paper and let’s get started on making you the most popular person in the room!

Being likeable and approachable is a bit like being a human magnet. People are naturally drawn to those who exude positive energy and make them feel comfortable.

So, if you want to be the life of the party (or at least the office), here are a few tips to help you become more likeable and approachable.

  • Smile! It’s the universal language of friendliness. A genuine smile can make all the difference in how people perceive you. Plus, it’s contagious – when you smile at someone, they’re more likely to smile back.
  • Listen more than you talk. Everyone loves to have someone truly listen to them and show interest in what they have to say. By being a good listener, you’ll be perceived as thoughtful, engaged and genuinely interested in others.
  • Show empathy. People often remember how you made them feel, and showing empathy and understanding can make someone feel valued and heard.
  • Be positive. Positivity is contagious, and it’s hard not to like someone who exudes positivity. Even if you’re having a bad day, try to put on a positive face and it will likely rub off on those around you.
  • Don’t be afraid to be yourself. People can sense when you’re being fake or inauthentic. By being true to yourself, you’ll be more relatable and easier to approach.
  • Make people laugh. If you can make someone laugh, you’re on the fast track to friendship. Laughter is a powerful bonding tool, so don’t be afraid to inject some humor into your interactions.
  • Make connections. When you meet someone new, try to find a common ground or something you have in common. This can be a great starting point for building a connection.
  • Be kind. Kindness goes a long way in making people feel good about themselves and the world around them. By being kind, you’ll be remembered as someone who made a positive impact on someone’s day.

So there you have it, folks! By practicing active listening, being positive, showing genuine interest in others, being confident and using body language, you’ll be well on your way to becoming the most likeable and approachable person in the room.

In the end, being liked and approachable isn’t about being someone you’re not, it’s about being the best version of yourself, it’s about being genuine and kind!

So go forth and conquer, my friends, and make the world a more connected place, one smile at a time!

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Elvis Tapfumanei
Elvis Tapfumanei

Written by Elvis Tapfumanei

Your friendly neighbour who likes to talk about existential issues and lovely human stories.

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